Archive for August, 2008

Aug 30 2008

Guest Blogger – Mike Hogan, Owner of Entertainment at Large

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When Brant offered me the opportunity to throw my 2 cents in on his blog I had to say yes. Brant and I have worked together many times over the years. If you need a photographer that’s talented, yet easy to work with I strongly suggest you consider him…  he is one of the best.  (Even if he is a George Michael fan!)

I love weddings and one thing I have seen too many times over the years is a reception fall short because of poor planning. Brant’s blog is a great place to share my insight on how to pull together a reception to remember!

Proper planning is key to a successful reception.  One of the elements to consider is how important the placement of your entertainment is in the success of your reception. Whether you are using a band or a DJ, they need to be located where they can best do their job – near the dance floor, not stuck in a corner.  Their speakers should be up on stands for the best possible sound.  And if you can avoid it, do not place tables between the speakers and the dance floor. Two major problems arise when this takes place; one is that the music volume needs to be louder since it has to travel further to reach the dance floor and the other is the guests seated at the tables in front of the speakers are usually not happy about it.

It is also important that when the band or DJ is making an announcement that they can be seen as well as heard. If you have ever been to an event where someone is making an announcement, but you don’t know where it is coming from, you notice everyone in attendance looking around the room trying to find out where the announcer is.

Additionally, keep in mind that a professional DJ with good equipment does not need a lot of room; a 4 foot by 3 foot space is usually enough.  Please consider these thoughts when planning your special event.  Your DJ or band will appreciate it.  And in the end, so will you and your guests.

On another note, I want to offer a little advice on scheduling.  I have performed at over 1200 receptions and have pretty much seen it all so I feel confident in what I am about to say! Don’t break the energy of the reception by stopping for activities every 15 minutes. You will only get the guests full attention about 3 times in an evening so group your events. Don’t hold four separate toasts.  Two toasts at a time or even four is fine, if they are not too long.  The cake and bouquet/garter toss (if you are doing one) can be done back to back. While the staff is cutting up and serving the cake, the bouquet and garter can be going on the dance floor and keeping the party going.

I’m going to finish with this last thought… a timeline is important but you also need to adjust it as the evening plays out. If dinner takes 10 minutes longer than expected I recommend not rushing the cake cutting to make up time. The important thing at the end of the night is that the events took place in a timely fashion and that everyone had an unbelievably good time!

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Aug 29 2008

Tomorrow’s Special Guest Blogger is…

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…DJ Mike Hogan from Entertainment At Large.  When I first started my business in 1999 Mike was one of the first DJ’s I worked with and fortunately I have had that opportunity many times since then.  Not only is he a good guy, he always has the dance floor packed.  He is always promoting “Stress Free Fun” so I’m excited to see what he has in store for us tomorrow.  Oh, by the way, for your next event you’ll have to consider Party Donuts for your guests… he does that too :-)

 

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Aug 25 2008

Crystal & Sean Wedding

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Recently I posted some images from Crystal & Sean’s engagement session and promised some wedding images…so here they are!  Wow, what a great time!  Everything was so well thought out by Crystal and Sean and delivered perfectly by wedding planner Ann Strobel from Ann’s Plans.  What I thought was particularly fun about this wedding (other than the surprise belly dancer :-) ) was that it was a small intimate wedding at Bernardo Heights Country Club with their closest and most personal friends and family to share it with them.

Oh, and I can’t I forget to mention the cake, flowers & DJ…If you you’re looking for some great referrals you need to check out Sweet Cheeks Baking CompanyLois Mathews Design and Artistic Productions!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Aug 18 2008

Rinehart Family

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Although my primary focus is on wedding photography I am occasionally available for family portraiture as well.  With my office located in the Bernardo Winery I have optimal access to a beautiful setting that makes family sessions super enjoyable.  The location is full of rich and unique photo spots.  Why go anywhere else when I can create wonderful portraits right outside my office?

The Rinehart family were both easy and fun to work with… and they looked great!

 

 

 

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Aug 11 2008

Jerry & Setareh Engagement

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Engagement sessions are always a blast and photographing Jerry & Setareh was more than fun!  It’s such a great opportunity to get to know the couple.  The beach tends to be a popular location and having so many choices in San Diego really makes it easy.  We decided on La Jolla Cove.  I’ve been there a number of times :-) but it always makes for great images.  Jerry and Setareh are getting married at the Hilton La Jolla Torrey Pines soon so keep an eye out for those too!

 

 

 

 

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Aug 06 2008

Guest Blogger – Joanna Falb, Owner of Unforgettable Event

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Brant Bender, now he’s the kind guy you don’t want to say no to!  He’s simply wonderful – talented, creative, an all around great guy, so when he approached me about being a guest blogger on his site, how could I resist?  Well, then I sat down to begin my commentary, weighing in on something I hoped to be pertinent to the industry, brides, grooms, etc. and began to think… oh my, his first blogger, this is quite the honor!  I hope this doesn’t disappoint.  Brant, thank you for your confidence.  I feel honored and privileged to throw in my two cents.  Here we go…

THE BIG DAY

Oh, the excitement and anticipation of the BIG day!  Nothing compares to the way your heart flutters at the thought of walking down the aisle and meeting the love of your life at the end of a freshly laid rose petal path.  Reality has a way of quickly setting in for all of us…

Planning a wedding can be a daunting task, coupled with the stress of everyday life, work, etc. one can see how the romanticized version can quickly become overwhelming, considering all the details involved in planning your nuptials.  Don’t lose faith!  You can still hold onto your vision of glamour and romance, while maintaining your sanity, with a little guidance along the way.

BENEFITS OF A WEDDING PLANNER

The thought of having a professional assist you as you begin to plan, quite possibly the biggest social event of your life, does have a certain calming effect.  A wedding planner will act as your biggest champion, standing poised to assist you every step of the way – or to the degree you want/need them to.   There are a few key areas, that when addressed properly, will help calm the anxiety many couples may face.

BUDGET

A wedding budget is something that should be addressed immediately.  First, from a big picture standpoint, how much money will we be able to spend, where will these funds come from?  Second, be as detailed as possible.  Setting realistic amounts for each anticipated expense is key.  Revisiting the budget throughout the design process is essential.  Establishing realistic expectations can come easily with the assistance of a wedding consultant that is well versed in a given market.  As wedding professionals, it is our job to be in constant contact with professionals and trends in the industry, keeping a steady pulse and fresh perspective.  This wealth of knowledge is an invaluable resource – from custom stationery to vintage vehicles – a wedding consultant should be able to provide you with vendors that are skilled in their craft – true professionals!

PLAN & TIMELINE

Laying out a systematic and detailed plan is another key to success. Setting realistic goals for planning purposes will keep you on schedule and allow you to track your progress.  It allows you to get your arms around things without getting in over your head.  A wedding consultant will share the tools they have developed through years of experience and help create a custom set of worksheets, calendars, checklists and documents for your use.  Brant can attest to the fact that we live by our timelines.   It is our master document, a wonderful tool for all of the “team” leading up to and on event day… from the florist to the photographer, bakery to the limo driver, it touches on every detail.

STRESS MANAGEMENT

There is something to be said about having the confidence in those you have hired, turning the reigns over on event day and allowing those trusted professionals to execute the detailed plan you have put in place.  Ahh… to relax and let go!!!  Enjoy your day, as it goes by all too quickly.  Soak in all the moments.  You’ve certainly worked hard.  How often do you have those closest to you, family and friends, all gathered in one place celebrating together?  You, your mother, sister, aunt, friends, etc. could easily get bogged down setting out linens, managing deliveries, stringing the wishing tree, ensuring the florals are in place, etc.  Have confidence that you have conveyed your “vision” to those you have hired and that it will all come together as you have planned. 

Brant and I had a mutual client who hosted quite the elaborate affair – custom linens made from Indian Sarees, hand made wooden boxes filled with cinnamon, crystals, peacock feather embellishment throughout – no detail overlooked!  It was incredible!!!  I worked closely with the bride and groom throughout the design/planning process and covered the intricacies of the event in great detail.  The items were turned over to us at rehearsal and we pulled it all together without a hitch.  There is no possible way that the bride could have relaxed, enjoyed her wedding day, her guests, etc. if all of these details were on her mind and in her hands.  She had great confidence in our abilities… It was gorgeous and so was she!!!

Those are my thoughts for now.  I could go into further detail, but we’ll save that for another time.  Brant, thank you for allowing me to share my perspective and I hope to return again as a guest blogger.  

Warmest,

Joanna

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Aug 05 2008

Tomorrow’s Special Guest Blogger is…

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… bridal consultant extraordinaire Joanna Falb, from Unforgettable Event.  I have known Joanna for years and when I decided to introduce a guest blogger she was an easy choice!  My commitment with my new blog was to provide brides valuable resources and I felt there was no better place to start than with someone who does wedding planning from beginning to end.  I’m very excited to read her entry and I think you will be too!

 

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